"Where There Is Great Love, There Are Always Miracles"...

Since my last post, Katelyn has had significant ups and downs. Back in June, she was again admitted to the PPHP program due to her severe aggression and self-injurious behavior. She was placed on Zoloft and her Risperdal was increased. She was then discharged in mid-July and she returned to her preschool for the last few weeks of the summer program. During this time, she had significant difficulties both at home and at school.

After the summer session ended, there was a 4-week break, during which time she was showing significant regression in terms of her behavior. It was quite apparent that she could not deal with breaks in her schooling, as evidenced by her PPHP admissions and 3-week stay at Children's Hospital, all occurring after school breaks. At this point, we were considering out-of-district placement to a school that would specialize in dealing with children similar to Katelyn, exhibiting both characteristics of autism as well as psychiatric issues. Her psychologist, developmental pediatrician, primary care physician, and neuropsychologist were all in agreement that there was sufficient reason to believe that she could no longer function in a public school setting, and out-of-district placement was recommended.

I met with the school to discuss our concerns, and they were very concerned as well. They have been wonderful to Katelyn and her family throughout all of our struggles, and they truly care deeply for her. The school psychologist and adjustment counselor became part of her team and we decided that it was worth giving it another shot at her preschool since that is the ideal place for her, if possible. Her teacher suggested that all members of her team be included on an email list so that we can all be on the same page and communicate about Katelyn's treatment, which has helped tremendously. And, boy, did Katelyn surprise all of us!

Expecting the worst, we were shocked to hear that she did well the first few days of school, and even enjoyed taking the bus again! We were still cautious, wondering if the "honeymoon period" would end like it almost always did, but it has continued! And I am so happy to report that she has drastically improved ever since! She is now playing with Ashley on a daily basis -- they are like best friends now, with the occasional fight, but nothing out of the ordinary for "typical" sibling rivalry. Just weeks before, she wasn't even able to be in the same room as Ashley, and sometimes not even on the same level of the house, without having a complete meltdown. Now she gets upset if she can't be with Ashley!

Who knows what the reasons are for her significant improvements -- perhaps her medication, perhaps the hard work and dedication of her family, school staff, and therapeutic supports, perhaps the fact that we turned our dining room into a play room, perhaps a sudden developmental growth on her part, perhaps all of the prayers and love that so many people have shared with us -- whatever the cause, it is a true miracle.

We have seen what Hell is like, believe me. But having gone through all of the difficulties over the past year, and coming through them alive and intact, we've grown stronger, and we will never, ever give up hope, no matter what obstacles may come our way in the future. We now have a taste of Heaven and we will never let it go.

(Quote by Willa Cather)

It's Good to be Back...

Katelyn was officially discharged from the PPHP program on Monday. The staff had a little going away party for her while I met with the doctors to discuss her discharge plan. The kids sang a goodbye song to her and then it was time for her to leave her permanent mark in the form of a yellow painted hand print on the wall. After four and a half weeks in the program, it was now time to complete the transition back to her preschool.

The week went fairly well overall. Her teacher reported that Katelyn seems very happy to be back, but that she definitely requires constant attention, which we completely expected. Because of this need, the school has provided her with a 1:1 aide in the classroom. I am also driving her to and from school because we are concerned that taking the bus could cause more anxiety for Katelyn at this point, despite the fact that she really enjoyed it in the past. We will be meeting with the school on Tuesday for her IEP meeting to further discuss her current needs and to make sure that all appropriate services are in place.

Her teacher and other support staff are very happy to have Katelyn back, and we are so glad that she is back in her preschool classroom that she loves so much!

Here are some photos from her last day at the PPHP program:

It's Been Way Too Long...

It has been quite a few months since my last update and there is so much to catch you all up on. First, I am currently 17 weeks pregnant with our third child, which is the main reason that I have been missing in action due to morning sickness, or in my usual case, 24-hour-a-day sickness. We are hoping for a boy this time and will find out September 1st.

As far as Katelyn goes, there is so much to say that I will inevitably forget something, but I will do my best to remember everything that has happened over the past few months.

You are what you eat...
We started Katelyn on the gluten-free/casein-free diet (GFCF) back on April 28th, which basically means that she no longer eats wheat (and some other grains) or milk products. There is a lot of information on the Internet about the GFCF diet and how it has been shown to help many children with autism. There is a whole science behind the diet that I find fascinating.

After researching and talking with other parents of autistic children who have seen positive results, we decided it was worth a shot. Some of the immediate improvements that we noticed shortly after implementing the diet were less "stimming," a significant increase in speech and language skills, improved behavior (specifically less aggressive behavior towards Ashley), increased social awareness and interaction, increased focus, and a happier demeanor overall.

It certainly was not easy to start the diet, but once we found substitutes for her favorite foods, it definitely got easier. And for those of you who think that your child would "starve" if you tried this diet (I used to feel this way!), just know that the kids who are very picky and only eat certain foods, especially those who limit themselves to gluten and milk products, are usually the ones who will benefit from the diet the most. Of course, vitamins and supplements need to be implemented in order to ensure that certain nutrients, such as calcium, are not deficient.

A few of my favorite sites are GFCFdiet.com, TACA.com, and of course my favorite message board, which has been a lifesaver in so many ways. I also highly recommend the book, The Kid-Friendly ADHD and Autism Cookbook, which not only explains the scientific reasons why the diet works, but offers many great recipes!

Let's get things moving...
Katelyn had been having chronic diarrhea for months, so we decided to take Katelyn to a pediatric gastroenterologist just to be sure that there was nothing serious going on. Well, it turned out that she was severely impacted all the way up to her stomach, and the doctor said that she was probably like that for six months! He then performed an upper endoscopy and colonoscopy, took biopsies, and cleaned her out completely. His immediate suspicion was celiac disease, but he needed to wait for the results of the biopsies.

Two weeks later, we went back for followup and found out that she does not have celiac disease, but she is lactose intolerant. Also, an x-ray revealed that she was once again impacted all the way up, despite being completely cleaned out two weeks prior. The doctor said that it appears that she has very slow motility of her bowels, or that they simply do not "move" like they should. He prescribed Ex-Lax and Miralax to help her bowels function properly. Two weeks later, we returned and discovered that although she was still impacted, it was not as severe as previously, so the doctor is hopeful that the medicine regimen is working and asked us to return in one month, which will be in September.

On the same page...
We had Katelyn's IEP meeting (special education) for preschool back in May and it went extremely well. The school offered us everything we were looking for and are completely on the same page as us when it comes to our concerns for Katelyn. They also agreed to contract with one of our existing ABA providers for the summer, which has been great! We couldn't be happier with our relationship with the school thus far!!!

The wheels on the bus go round and round...
Katelyn attended preschool for the summer session and it was a great success! There were two sessions offered, one specifically for kids with autism and one "regular" classroom that included kids with IEPs. It was decided at her IEP meeting that she would benefit the most from the regular classroom rather than the autistic classroom because she is so verbal now and she has already come so far with her ABA therapy. Katelyn really enjoyed the summer session and loved riding the school bus! She asks for school (and the school bus) all of the time and is excited to go back! I'm excited for her to start school in the fall also!

In September, she will be attending the same preschool full-time with the same teacher, who is absolutely amazing! She will spend some time in a small group setting and then other times in a larger "regular" classroom with peer models. We are very optimistic that she will have a successful school year!