Let the Transition Begin...

Katelyn has been in the partial hospital program for 4 weeks now. She seems to be adjusting well to the Prozac, so the doctor decided to increase the dose slightly, which we did on Tuesday night. Her level of anxiety is still quite high, but it has only been a little over two weeks since she started the medication, which can take much longer to reach full effect. It does, however, seem to be helping with the depression aspect. So far, we have seen some significant improvements in terms of her ability to enjoy things, laugh, and smile, and she is now showing some interest in previously cherished objects, including Giraffe (although not anywhere near the extent that it was before). She is slowly becoming more tolerant of other children it seems. Normally, she would lash out and hit another child for getting too close to her, but now she is occasionally allowing another child to give her a toy or even a hug. She is also smiling at other children a little bit and saying "hi" spontaneously.

We are seeing an increase in spontaneous screaming, and she has been getting very hyper and overstimulated lately, so we are going to keep an eye on this because it could be a side effect of the medication. However, if we have to choose between a hyper child and a depressed child, we would much rather have the hyper child who is able to laugh, be silly, and enjoy things once again, as long as it doesn't interfere with her ability to function at home and school.

Because we are starting to see some improvements, we have decided to attempt to begin a transition back to her preschool. This past Tuesday, her teacher came to visit her at the day program. Today, she is going for a half-day at her preschool and her therapist from the day program is going to be there to assist in the transition, and the same will happen on Monday. If all goes well, she will be discharged from the hospital program on Tuesday. We will be meeting with the school the following week to discuss her current needs (since they are very different than they were previously) and write up a new IEP to ensure that all of the necessary services are in place for her as soon as possible. We are looking forward to getting her back to her preschool with her wonderful teacher, principal, and therapists, who have all given us a tremendous amount of support and guidance throughout this whole ordeal. They truly love and care about Katelyn and we couldn't be more grateful to them.

Although we are seeing some positive changes, she still has a lot more to overcome. It is going to be a long road, but with support from professionals, family, and friends, we are confident that we will get our beloved Katelyn back to where she needs to be.

So Far, So So...

Katelyn has been in the partial hospital program for almost 3 weeks now. She likes the staff and seems to look forward to going there, but she is still struggling in many ways.

After observing her and collecting data from her family, teacher, and diagnostic tests, it has been determined that she is suffering from a severe anxiety disorder and most likely depression as well. There is most likely something else going on here in addition, but right now the focus is to alleviate some of her anxiety since she is in an insurmountable amount of distress, which is making it impossible for any other behavioral interventions to have an effect at this time. Therefore, last Tuesday, after careful consideration by her psychiatric team and family, and weighing the pros and cons, we agreed to a trial of low-dose Prozac to hopefully help get her level of anxiety to a more manageable state. This was an extremely difficult decision for us, but at this point, all other avenues have been exhausted and it is clear that nothing is going to be able to help her until we get her anxiety under control. Now, we just have to wait and see if it has an effect, which could take weeks.

We have seen some improvement in certain areas, but she still has a very long way to go. She has shown some interest in activities lately, such as doing puzzles or building towers with giant Legos. However, she still requires a significant amount of adult direction and encouragement to become engaged in most activities. She also has been smiling and laughing more, and even showing some interest in being silly with Ashley, although she is still aggressive towards her at times. Unfortunately, she is still perseverating constantly, even worse than before, asking for things over and over and over and over again for hours on end, and then screaming or becoming aggressive when she does not get immediate gratification.

Because she is so unstable at this time, we have decided to postpone her reevaluation at the May Institute until she is better able to demonstrate her true potential and capabilities. At this point, we honestly are questioning whether she truly has autism or if this is something entirely different masking itself as autism because some of the behaviors that she is demonstrating (i.e. her awareness of how her actions affect others, doing things "out of spite," etc.) are not consistent with an autism diagnosis. Even the director of the program stated that he does not feel that she presents with classic autism symptoms at this time, which is what her diagnosis currently is. Although she does exhibit many "red flags" for autism, he feels that we will have to wait and see over time how it all plays out to determine if she truly has autism or just some characteristics. So we will definitely be having her reevaluated at the autism diagnostic center when appropriate.

At this time, it is unclear how many more weeks she will be in the program, but we are trying to be optimistic that she will continue to make improvements. We are hoping that we will see significant progress once the Prozac takes effect since she is still being tormented by the level of distress that her little body and mind are experiencing on a constant basis, which is also taking its toll on our entire family. I'll continue to provide updates when I can. Thank you all for your continued support, love, and prayers.

Right Back Where We Started From...

It has been quite a while since I last posted and a lot has happened since (including the birth of our baby boy, Trevor Kyle, in January!)

In December, Katelyn had a bout of pneumonia and it really set her back. Up until then, she had been really progressing well. However, being very sick for over a week, coupled with then being out of school for winter recess, she really regressed in terms of her behavior and willingness to do things independently. Her control issues also escalated and she became even more demanding than before.

After doing some research and talking with other parents of children with autism, we decided to try a course of Nystatin since she was on amoxicillin for the pneumonia and antibiotics often can cause an overgrowth of yeast in the body, especially in children with autism. We have yet to see any improvement. In fact, as time goes on, her behavior has been getting far worse, both at home and now at school.

We are now suspecting that something else is going on in addition to her autism that is causing her to behave this way. Her teacher and therapists have never encountered a child like Katelyn and they are as baffled as we are. We have tossed around the idea that perhaps it is obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) or even depression that is causing her to be so demanding and controlling, but now we are leaning more towards oppositional defiant disorder (ODD). I had heard of ODD way back when I first read about autism, but at the time I did not feel that Katelyn fit that profile whatsoever. Now, however, she seems to fit it to a tee.


Here is a brief description of oppositional defiant disorder:

In children with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), there is an ongoing pattern of uncooperative, defiant, and hostile behavior toward authority figures that seriously interferes with the youngster’s day to day functioning. Symptoms of ODD may include:

• Frequent temper tantrums
• Excessive arguing with adults
• Often questioning rules
• Active defiance and refusal to comply with adult requests and rules
• Deliberate attempts to annoy or upset people
• Blaming others for his or her mistakes or misbehavior
• Often being touchy or easily annoyed by others
• Frequent anger and resentment
• Mean and hateful talking when upset
• Spiteful attitude and revenge seeking

We have been seeing an increase in aggression both towards herself and to others, especially to her sister, Ashley. Thank God she has not directed any of this towards Trevor, but I worry that it is only a matter of time before the novelty wears off. She is also starting to hit other children at school without any reason other than the fact that they walked by her. She has been increasingly demanding and controlling, and she deliberately seeks to annoy or upset others, especially me unfortunately, probably because I am the main disciplinarian since I am with her the most. She will purposely defy us, even if it means forfeiting privileges that she earned, and begged for, moments earlier. If we say yes, she says no. If we say no, she says yes. Every single aspect of our lives with Katelyn has become a constant battleground. She cuts off her nose to spite her face.

Because this is interfering with her at school and at home, we have decided to pursue psychiatric evaluation for Katelyn. Our first step is going to be getting her re-evaluated by the same doctor who diagnosed her autism. This will take place in March and we will get the results of the evaluation mid-April. We also put her name on a waiting list for a local center specializing in children's behavioral health, but they said that we will most likely not hear from them for at least two months to book an evaluation.

So now the waiting begins once again...the not knowing...the hoping that getting a diagnosis will offer some sort of help for our child and our family as a whole. We are right back where we started from when we first began this journey back in 2008, but this time it feels much different to me.

When receiving the diagnosis of autism, I threw myself into advocating for my child and learning as much as I could about autism, but this is really affecting me to my core. I cannot express how difficult it is to deal with the fact that your child may have a disorder that causes her to want to purposely upset you, or that creates such turmoil inside of her that she no longer enjoys things that she used to because she is in a constant battle within herself. I am often reminded of the nursery rhyme line: "And when she was good, she was very, very good, but when she was bad, she was horrid." And what makes it worse is that I know in my heart that this is NOT my child...this is not who she was just a few short months ago. And I will do everything in my power to ensure that this is not who she will be forever.